Fathers’ Day, NYC

“My father used to work in the city”. Long Island born musician, Ross was reflecting on what the city had meant to him and meant now, with so much of the city changing.   “It’s always felt to me like the real place.  Yet it’s always changing.  When people complain about the development I remind them it’s always been like this.   This courtyard, for instance (we were having iced tea in an ‘authentically French’ tea cafe). 50 years ago this would have been a forecourt covered in machine parts.”

It was Father’s day in New York.  So the paternal influence was always going to be felt.  But it was a day for mothers too.  Irish-born Lucy had been a natural flâneur when she first arrived in the City.  She’s had less time for creative wandering since Theo was born.  He is now 14 months old and showed up for his first Street Wisdom in a baby sling – with almond butter biscuits on tap.  Luxury.

Lucy is a singer and writer.  So let’s hear about her experience – in her own words:

David was a very open, jovial and engaging midwife of our encounter with the New York city street one Sunday afternoon in SoHo. New York streets are incredibly information-rich places, bursting with mitochondria and effluence. After several years of living here, I still find it deeply fascinating. So it’s an ideal place for a happening like Street Wisdom, though inevitably because there is so much abundance of stimuli and people busy fighting their way through the infinity of it all to get to where they HAVE TO BE, a lot of it goes unnoticed. But it’s there. 

David described the Street Wisdom encounter as being a dance with the street and it was delicious – as a parent of a 14 month old baby – to have a scheduled opportunity to dance with the whispers and shouts and belches of downtown Manhattan on a hot afternoon with little zephyrs blowing gusts of precious air on the avenues if we got lucky. His questions sent us looking for old things in new ways, I found. Probably the most profound moment in the whole experience for me happened within my very first meander, when I happened upon an empty scene beside a playground that I found very compelling, in an open way. I kept returning to it, and I want to go back to that spot and gaze some more, and throw some more questions into the empty swimming pool I found there.

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Taking the Side Streets in Shanghai

Marc Lewis (@SCA2Dean) is the Dean of School of Communication Arts 2.0 one of the most successful – and definitely most funky – advertising schools on the planet.  SCA2 has woven Street Wisdom into their curriculum and now Marc takes this ‘learning tool’ to Shanghai for our first ever event in China:

Even before I write this post, I can feel myself blush a little bit.  I don’t want to brag, boast or big myself up, but I must tell you that I have the very best job in ad land.

This is the time of year in which I feel most grateful for my job, because my students are all beginning to flower just in time for their Portfolio Day.

Every day is great though. For example, David Pearl leads a Street Wisdom with each new intake. It is usually a life-changing, unforgettable moment for some of the students.

During SCA’s school holidays, I teach and train students and faculty at WPP School Shanghai. I love learning how to teach to different cultures, and the school trusts me to help them shift from ‘Chinese Style’ teaching to the unorthodox ways that we do things.

So I don’t just have the best job in ad land, but I also take the best busman’s holidays.

I took Street Wisdom to Shanghai last month.  (Thank you David for letting me be the first person to run a Street Wisdom session in China)

This is a video of me and my team briefing the students in the school carpark.

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What I love the most about my job is that I can learn from the hundreds of teachers that visit my school, and I can learn from my students.  I want to share something that I learnt from one of my Chinese students.  Let’s call her J.

J comes from a very wealthy family.  She is building a relationship with her parents, but her mother feels very guilty for things that happened in J’s childhood. Her parents have been compensating for this guilt by removing all financial pressures. J doesn’t need to work.  She is very talented.

J was at a critical juncture in her academic journey when we ran Street Wisdom; living in very basic student dormitories a long way from home, working hard, impatient not to be seeing immediate progress.  Questioning her circumstances.

J’s wisdom didn’t come from what she saw on the street, but from what she felt. She noticed that she had fallen into the habit of walking main roads to get around. Roads with traffic lights that make crossing streets a bit safer, wide pavements – it all felt so easy.  When she walked for Street Wisdom she took side streets, no traffic lights, dodging scooters, crowded.  Much harder. More exhilarating.

She told me that what she learned, from Street Wisdom, is that she is at a crossroads.  She could take the safe streets and rely on the financial generosity of her parents.  Or she can take the road that makes her feel alive.

And never look back.

Thanks J, and thank you David for innovating such a brilliant learning tool.

Generation W

23rd June.  It was Referendum Day in the UK – a day we were all supposed to be thinking about the next generation.  So it was great the young ones were involved when we decided to host a family Street Wisdom at London’s Southbank Centre.  Simon, Kate, Seren and Raya live on an idyllic cliff-top in Cornwall.   So why did they come all the way to the big, rain-filled city to experience a Street Wisdom?

My wife and I are at crossroads in our lives, with big questions about which way to turn. The idea that the answers are right there in the streets (and even within us) intrigued us. Also, we love where we live, and we were excited by the prospect of discovering new ways to interact with our community, as well as meaningful games to play with our children. 

Simon, a social entrepreneur who has worked with the Dalai Lama in the past, is no stranger to the wisdom traditions.  So what was his take on this urban wisdom experience?

As with all of the greatest wisdom, the Street Wisdom experience was beautifully simple. There was something about having permission to interact with strangers; to notice what drew my heart; to slow right down; and to open to the story of the streets, that was very powerful. I found myself submitting to something universal, noticing clues about my path all around me. At the same time, I felt empowered by the process to skilfully navigate the journey by following only that which appealed to my heart. This paradoxical potion of submission and free will was a beautiful thing to savour, and it has shed a luminous light on my own life moving forwards. The conversation I had with a mother and daughter on the streets, speaking about heartache, love and loss to a stranger, is something that will always stay with me. From my short Street Wisdom experience, I have re-discovered the magic of the Universe and the magic that lies latent within.  I have also been reminded by the wisdom of our children; to follow their leadership in noticing the world around us, and the simple joy of singing to strangers. I’ve got some way to go before I invite an old man to join me in a rendition of Mary Poppins – but at least I now feel I’m on my way.

We’re curious to see how Street Wisdom can be developed for families, especially ones with younger children.  I can’t remember a more playful event, with Seren (3) and Raya (18 months) taking lead facilitator roles in Stomping Giants, Spot the Graffiti Cat and Flying Umbrellas.   They are the future – and they get our vote!IMG_5836IMG_5853

Camden (un)Lock

This post was written by Judy Piatkus, Founder of ConsciousCafe 

Last Saturday 19 of us met in a sun-baked, vibrant Camden Lock with three Street Wisdom facilitators for our ConsciousCafe Street Wisdom experience.

We divided into three groups and each of us went to a different part of the Market. It was still fairly quiet, early in the morning and easy to absorb all the amazing sights and sounds as the many stallholders set out their wares and the food vendors prepared their meals. Each facilitator sent their group members on four ten-minute short walks with a specific issue to observe and think about during that time. These exercises put us in an altered state in that we all became very relaxed. Then we were left with time to wander round the market and observe what answers to our questions would come up for us.

After 50 minutes or so we all met in a nearby bar and again, in our groups, shared our experiences.

The answer to my own question had come very fast and kept being reinforced as I wandered round the market. One woman had a question regarding her relationship and she spotted a sign that made it very clear that the decision she wanted to make was the right one. Another participant was clarifying ideas about where to live and the Street Wisdom Experience opened her mind to new possibilities. Everyone in all the groups had gained from the wisdom of the streets.

Many years ago I read Living Magically by Gill Edwards, her first book, which introduced me to the concept of metaphysics and how helpful signs are all around us if we allow ourselves to be sufficiently aware to take the time to see. Street Wisdom also works in the same way reminding us that our knowingness operates on so many different levels. I like the idea that I could repeat my Street Wisdom experience any time I want to when I have another important question that needs an answer.

ConsciousCafe will be happy to offer another Street Wisdom experience in due course if any of their members were unable to take part in this one. Just let [email protected] know and when they have enough people they will set it up.

How was your experience?  If you took part in the Camden Lock Street Wisdom, please add your own perspectives below.  

Wanderful Copenhagen

“It’s not rain – it’s nature reminding us we’re alive!”.  That was my own personal breakthrough moment leading a Street Wisdom in wonderful, wanderful Copenhagen.  Our 12 adventurers had started their Tune Up in bright sunshine. An hour later, just as we started the Quest, the skies opened.  It turned out to be perfect weather for an elemental journey. And it was also really fitting, given this Street Wisdom event was hosted by our new friends Being Human – an organisation that’s best known for taking groups into the wilderness and connecting deeply to Nature for inspiration.

Why did they want to run a Street Wisdom? Founder, Sille Lundquist put it this way – ‘Wisdom is everywhere, if we pay attention to it – this is a belief that Being Human shares with Street Wisdom. Even though we mostly use nature – both the great wild nature, and the small pockets of nature in every city around the world – for nourishment and inspiration, the collaboration was right from the second we met. I got curious and was guided by a playfulness, generosity, depth and eagerness to explore that not only made my day but answered my question – and inspired the people that came along as well! What a wonderful day – being alive in the rain!’

The questions people asked were, as ever, varied.  ‘Should I build the houseboat?‘ was one that stuck in my mind.  Another was ‘My head says yes to the dramatic new job but my body isn’t sure…which of them is right?’  The final sharing, in the warmth of the Atlasbar was just fascinating.  I had to tear myself away so I would get to the airport on time.  But I sense the conversations – and the real adventures – are just beginning.

David Pearl

Inventor of Street Wisdom

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Walk on Water

  The RSA is on a mission.  A big one.  21st Century Enlightenment.   So we’re delighted and honoured that they are partnering with Street Wisdom.  On Dec 3, while David Attenborough was giving his vision for tackling climate change upstairs, we were out in the streets, seeing how we could bring the local environment alive and harvest insights from the urban landscape.

For over two centuries, the RSA has been a home for innovation.  So it was appropriate that this Street Wisdom ended in a way we have never tried before.   On the water.

Not in the water, you’ll be relieved to know, but on a former Thames passenger steamer transformed into a floating bar.

45 participants showed up.  46 if you include this member of the public parking their car that got involved in Vali’s group:

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If you attended the event and want to share anything you learned/enjoyed/decided, then please leave a comment below.

Street Hug for Mark and Kenny for being top RSA wizards.  And special thanks to Vali and Adam, by the way for being such great Street Leaders.  Neither of them has led a group before.  They just loved their Street Wisdom experience and wanted to pass it on.   If you’d like to do the same, just let us know and we’ll make sure you have all you need.

Have a wander-ful weekend!

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David Pearl

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Peace Wisdom

 

Every day we hear disturbing news from conflict regions.  But what can we do about it? That’s a question often asked by the 15 entrepreneurial young peacemakers from places such as Israel, Palestine and Pakistan who were chosen to be the first ever GATHER Fellows.

GATHER, which focuses on supporting those taking practical action, is the brainchild of Seeds of Peace – a transformational initiative set up 25 years ago to develop the leadership potential of young Israelis and Arabs. GATHER chose London as the venue for its inaugural fellowship program. And asked Street Wisdom to kick it off!

Mohamed Rahmy, Director of Graduate Programs, explains what he had in mind: “GATHER Fellows come from completely different backgrounds; they speak different languages, and are working across different sectors on a variety of social change issues. I couldn’t have imagined a better exercise that would meet such a diverse group’s needs than Street Wisdom. Everyone of us, no matter what we do for a living, no matter how caught up we are in what our lives throw our way, deserve the mental space that Street Wisdom offers. It allows us to pause and reflect on the questions – big and small, practical and existential – that somehow get lost in the craziness of our day-to-day routine. Street Wisdom’s methodology is simple, accessible and easily applicable – practically anywhere around the world.”

IMG_9264We were honoured to be involved.  And excited!   It was inspiring to watch GATHER fellows heading out into the Autumn sunshine of Trafalgar Square in search of fresh answers to some world-sized questions. Some came back with fresh thinking about their projects. Others with insight into how they can sustain themselves as they seek to support others. One participant was stopped on her quest by someone trying to sell her a London bus tour.  “I’ll talk to you,” she said, “provided at the end I can ask you a question”.  “A question about me?”, asked the bus guy, taken off guard by the role reversal.  “No, about me and my work in Ramallah” she replied.  She didn’t buy the tour ticket but the conversation yielded fascinating insights from this wise stranger (”Stop talking about Israel, start talking about Palestinians!”).

Mohammed Rahmy reflects on the lasting effects of Street Wisdom on the participants: “It opened a new world of opportunities for self and professional betterment and revealed new places to seek advice, reassurance or even straight-on answers to some of life’s questions – a world of possibilities for our Fellows to ponder on over the coming weeks. I’m so happy we opened our GATHER Fellowship’s leadership accelerator with Street Wisdom and I am keen to always have it as a key ingredient in future programs. The impact of Street Wisdom is truly limitless.’’

IMG_9283The GATHER fellows are dispersing back to their regions.  But they are taking Street Wisdom with them and several are planning to run their own with their teams and communities.  It would be wonderful if they do.  It would bring us a step closer to our goal of bringing inspiration to every street in the world.  Now there’s a seed to plant!

David Pearl

With thanks to Street Wizards David Micklem and Scott Morrison for facilitating.     

 

 

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Tel Avivid

We started in Tel Aviv’s groovily grungy Carmel Market.  First, discovery?  Nine o’clock in the morning is an unusually early start for this laid back town.  But after half an hour of coffees and introductions, a band of artists, seekers, old friends, new acquaintances and even a surprise bystander – were off.   It’s hard to imagine a better town for Street Wisdom.  Strangers stop and talk to each other, often offering advice whether you ask for it or not.   Every road and alley seems to reveal another curiosity, character or riddle.  We ended up in the wonderfully funky Sonia cafe  hidden away in – I kid you not – Anonymous Alley.   Perfect end to a perfect Street Wisdom.  Here’s to many more!

 

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Covent Garden, 6th May, ‘Train or Try?’

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How about both?

With hundreds of people wanting to either attend or lead events up and down the country, we came up with a day when people could do either – or both. 30 or so would-be Street Wizards gathered in the Covent Garden piazza – braving the horizontal rain – to learn about how to run a Street Wisdom by experiencing it, under the guidance of David Pearl, Chris Barez-Brown and the Upping Your Elvis gang.

But that wasn’t all.

After lunch 12 ‘newbies’ stayed on to lead their own Street Wisdoms with a new set of participants who arrived in the afternoon. From fledgling to facilitator in a few hours. Amazing. It’s a format we intend to run again. And not just in London.

We’re working to feed all the sparks of inspiration around the country. So do keep in contact.

David

Training the Street Wizards